LagosExplorer reports: Celebrated Nollywood actress and style icon Shaffy Bello has opened up about her relationship goals, revealing that she’s no longer interested in casual dating and is now focused on finding a life partner. In a recent interview on the Dear Ife podcast hosted by Ifedayo Agoro, Bello made it clear that she’s entering a new chapter where marriage—defined on her terms—is the goal.
Shaffy Bello, known for her elegant screen presence and commanding performances in films like Elesin Oba, Your Excellency, and Chief Daddy, is one of Nigeria’s most respected actresses. Over the years, fans have followed not just her artistic journey but also glimpses of her personal life. Her latest statements on love and relationships have reignited public interest in the woman behind the glamorous roles.
> “I’ve had fun. I’ve dated someone younger than me—it was exciting at the time. But I’m done with that phase,” Shaffy said, firmly shutting down the idea of entertaining unserious romantic interests.
“Now I want depth, emotional safety, and commitment. I know exactly what I want in marriage.”
From Flings to Forever: Shaffy Bello’s Shift in Perspective
During the interview, Bello recounted how younger men often slide into her DMs, but few impress her. Many, she says, come with little more than “Hi dear,” a greeting she finds unappealing and lacking intentionality.
> “You want to approach a woman like me, and all you can say is ‘Hi dear’? No.”
Shaffy clarified that while her definition of marriage may not strictly follow societal norms, it centers around emotional connection and purposeful companionship—qualities she believes are often missing in casual relationships.
Since the podcast episode aired, fans have flooded social media with praise for Shaffy's honesty and clarity. Some commended her for challenging ageist and sexist norms in relationships, while others applauded her willingness to redefine marriage on her terms.
Twitter user @NollywoodInsider posted:
> “Shaffy Bello choosing herself and demanding depth? That’s the energy we need in 2025!”
However, critics argue that Shaffy's comments about younger men may reinforce age-based stereotypes. Others feel that celebrities often set unrealistic standards by conflating independence with emotional detachment.